Raving is more than just dancing to amazing beats under flashing lights—it’s about community, connection, and making sure everyone has the best time possible. Being a good rave friend means looking out for each other and fostering a safe, inclusive vibe. Here’s how to do it right.
Check In on Your Friends
Between the music and the crowd, it’s easy to lose track of how your friends are feeling. Check in regularly—whether it's a quick “You good?” or a full conversation during a chill moment. Sometimes, someone might not speak up about feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or unwell until you ask.
Stay Hydrated Together
Raves can be sweaty, high-energy environments, so hydration is key. Bring a refillable water bottle and remind your friends to take water breaks with you. Better yet, make it a group ritual to stop by the water station—because staying hydrated is cooler than passing out.
Rest When Someone Needs to Rest
The nonstop energy of a rave can be exhausting. If one of your friends needs a break, find a quiet spot to sit down with them. It’s okay to step away from the crowd for a bit—good friends prioritize each other’s well-being over missing a few minutes of music.
Have a Safety Plan
Before the rave starts, agree on a meeting spot in case someone gets separated. Share your phone locations if you’re comfortable with it and decide on signals or phrases if anyone feels unsafe or overwhelmed. A little preparation goes a long way in ensuring everyone has fun.
Don’t Leave Your Friend Alone
Even if they insist they’ll be fine, never leave your friend by themselves. Whether they’re going to the bathroom, stepping outside for air, or wandering to another stage, stick together. Raves are more fun and safer when you’re with your crew.
Check In on Strangers
Rave culture thrives on kindness. If you see someone who looks unwell, lost, or upset, check on them. A simple “Are you okay?” can make a world of difference. If they need help, assist them or find someone who can, like security or medics.
Be Kind
Spread good vibes everywhere you go. Compliment someone’s outfit, share a smile, or hand out kandi. Your positive energy can uplift not just your friends but everyone around you. Being kind is the ultimate rave etiquette.
Looking out for each other is what makes raves so magical. By following these tips, you’re not just being a good rave friend—you’re helping create an unforgettable experience for everyone.
